Tuesday, March 16, 2010

it is just strange

...when you see a man walking out of a public restroom cleaning off the screen of his laptop....

makes you wonder what he was doing in there...

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

A 16 year old's ideas on trust

"Trust" is a word that should not be taken lightly. It is a word that means something very deep and very meaningful.

To some that is all "trust" is a word, a word that has very little meaning. But I disagree. It’s not only a word on a sheet of paper but an idea, feeling and part of a meaningful relationship. Not just one kind of relationship, but all kinds; with parents, friends, boyfriend and most of all yourself. You have to trust yourself before you can expect anyone else to trust you.

But even after you have trusted you, there is no guarantee that anyone else will trust you. If you do find that once in a lifetime relationship with someone special you should treasure it and do everything in our power to keep it. To keep that special someone, to keep that trust is what you need to do. But there is always a chance of that someone letting you down and letting themselves down. If that happens, I guess if you see that this person is hurting inside you should forgive and forget. If your feelings are deep enough, one time is only a mistake and that my friend is something you can expect from everyone, mistakes.

Trust is also something you have to give others. You have to trust them in order to expect them to trust you. You'll find that many times people you think you can trust are not as trustworthy as you thought. But don't yell, scream and fight with them. It won’t change what they have done; it will only make it worse. Just get on with your life, but take it slow one step at a time.

I know that sometimes what they do is heartbreaking and yes it takes a long time to mend that broken heart, but don’t be a hermit and never trust any one again. That hurts more than anything else, being alone in the world.

Kids say it all....

So my boyfriend and I have been together for 2 1/2 years now. Time has flown by.

We get along really well and more importantly Steve and the bf get along great. We haven't moved in together or anything yet. We have both said yes eventually we see making the move to living together and even getting married, but we are taking our time.

The other day the 3 of us were walking and talking. Steve was talking about some things he had seen on America's Funniest Home Videos.

All of a sudden he blurts out..."When you guys get married you should'nt do it in the winter and you really should not do it outside, you might get hailed on". He was refering to an episode of the show he had seen and wanted to make sure we did not make the same mistake.

The bf said "There's no pressure there".

Another time we were playing a card game and Steve says "My mom and my someday step dad are going to loose".

I guess we have his approval and that means a lot!!