Life - Relationships ...Oh my...

What do you do when your new boyfriend

• is 7 years younger than you

• tells you he wanted to go out with you 10 years earlier but you would not give him the time of day

• almost says he bought his new vehicle to fit the new situation

• likes to give smooches in public

• has an aunt that went out with your younger brother

• enjoys spending time with you and your child

• has only been divorced for almost 5 months

• has an ex-wife who wants to call and complain because her mother is mad at her over the divorce – she the one who got pregnant with someone other than him

• is self sufficient with virtually no debt

• will probably do just about anything for you

• is the proverbial nice guy

When you

• feel really weird about being 7 years older

• remember that 10 years ago but remember liking one of the other younger guys

• don’t want the car you have

• feel funny but PDA

• didn’t even know that your brother was seeing anyone at the time

• have a child that adores him

• have been on your own for 4 years

• has an ex-husband that will be in the picture forever

• still has a huge student loan and recovering credit

• feel you are too selfish currently state to deserve such attention but can’t seem to shake it at times

• are trying to enjoy the nice guy and not second guess it

I guess you try to get over the little stuff and enjoy the good stuff. It’ll be 6 months at the end of this month – things are going well.

I enjoy it when he is around but I also enjoy my own time and my own space. There are still things that I like to do or don’t do but don’t feel comfortable doing when he is around – stupid stuff but my stuff all the same.